Dr. Iyabo Webzell wavukiye i Lagos, Nigeria, aho yakuriye mbere yo kwimukira mu Bwongereza afite imyaka 23, nyuma akimukira muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika afite imyaka 28, aho ubu atuye i Atlanta, Georgia, yabonye umugabo ku myaka 50.
Dr. Iyabo Webzell, umugore w’imyaka 55, umugore, umubyeyi w’abana bane, umuganga, umwanditsi w’ibitabo, umuvugizi w’imbere mu gihugu ndetse n’umutoza w’ubucuruzi n’uw’ubuzima bwiza, yasangije abagore inkuru ye y’urukundo, agaragaza uburyo yabashije gushyingirwa ku myaka 50 n’umugabo.
Dr. Iyabo yavuze ko hari benshi mu bagore bari gucika intege ku rukundo, ariko ngo baba batakaza amahirwe yo kugerageza ibyiza by’ubuzima. Yavuze ko yari yarashyingiwe kuva afite imyaka 25, ariko akajya mu rukundo rukomeye cyane rwananiranye, maze agasaba gutandukana ku myaka 40.
Yavuze ko mu gihe cy’urushako rwe atari yorohewe, ariko ko yabashije kugira abana babiri beza, kandi ababyeyi be bari bamushyigikiye cyane mu gihe yasabaga gutandukana no kongera kubaka ubuzima bwe.
Yagaragaje ko atigeze yiyibagirwa mu buzima bwe, ubuzima bwiza n’imyitozo ngororamubiri byari ibintu by’ingenzi kuri we. Yatangiye ubucuruzi bwe bwa mbere, mu buryo bwo kwivura ibikomere, afite imyaka 33.
Nubwo bitari byoroshye guhuza ubuzima bw’urugo rutoroshye, ubucuruzi, n’abana be bakiri bato, yagize imbaraga ziturutse ku Mana no ku muryango we, maze ubucuruzi bwe bukomeza gukura. Umwaka umwe nyuma yo gutandukana, ubucuruzi bwe bwageze kuri miliyoni y’amadolari, kandi bukomeza gukura.
Nyuma yo gutandukana, Dr. Iyabo yavuze ko yisanzuye, akagira umunezero, amahoro, ndetse n’icyizere gishya ku buzima bwe no ku hazaza. Yagaragaje ko yafashe imyaka ibiri atajya mu rukundo hagati y’imyaka 45 na 47, kuko atari kubona abagabo buzuye ibyo yashakaga, kandi ntiyashakaga kugera ku byo atashakaga.
Yagize ati: “Ubuzima bwanjye bwari bwiza, nari narakize ibikomere, nashoyemo byinshi ku giti cyanjye kandi nari mfite icyerekezo gihamye ku mugabo nashakaga gusangira na we ubuzima bwanjye bwiza.”
Yagaragaje ko urugendo rwo gukira rwamufashije cyane, aho yagize amahirwe yo gukora ingendo zitandukanye ku isi hamwe n’abana be mu buryo bwiza, kubungabunga ubuzima bwe, kugira ubucuruzi bwunguka, kubona inkunga y’ababyeyi be, gusohora igitabo cye cyabaye icya mbere ku rubuga rwa Amazon, kwandika ibindi bitabo bibiri, kuvuga ijambo inshuro eshatu muri Loni (United Nations), no kugura inzu y’inzozi ze, akongeraho gutunga umubare w’amadolari miliyoni.
Nyuma y’ibi byose, yatangiye kujya mu rukundo, yinjira ku rubuga rwa match.com, aho abantu bashakira abakunzi, yishimira kongera kumwenyura, no kumva akiri umugore mwiza.
Dr. Iyabo Webzell ashimangira ko umugore wese ukomeje kwizera Imana, gukora imirimo yamufasha gukira ibikomere biri imbere muri we no kwirinda amagambo y’abamuca intege, ashobora kugera ku rukundo nyakuri n’ubuzima bwiza.
Ku rubuga rwe rwa Instagram, Dr. Iyabo yashishikarije abagore gusaba ubufasha mu ngeri zose z’ubuzima bwabo, harimo urukundo, ubucuruzi, kwiyubaka, imibanire, gushaka uwo bazabana, ndetse no kugabanya ibiro n’imibereho myiza.
Abantu batandukanye bagaragaje ibyishimo batewe n’inkuru ye. Bamwe bavuze ko bamufata nk’icyitegererezo, abandi batangaza ko inkuru ye iha icyizere abakobwa n’abagore bakuze ko bashobora gukomeza gukundwa no kubona umuntu ubakunda.
Dr. Iyabo, ku giti cye, ashyigikira abagore bashaka kugera ku ntego zabo zose, yaba mu rukundo, ubuzima, ubucuruzi cyangwa imibereho myiza, abereka ko guharanira ibyiza bidashingiye ku myaka umuntu afite.
Dr. Iyabo Webzell w’imyaka 55
Abana yakuye mu rushako rwa mbere
Dr. Iyabo Webzell n’umugabo we bashyingiranwe ku itariki ya 17 Mata 2020, mu bukwe bwabaye hifashishijwe ikoranabuhanga rya Zoom, kubera ingamba zo kwirinda ikwirakwira rya COVID-19. Uyu muhango wabereye mu rugo rwabo i Atlanta, Georgia, ndetse ukitabirwa n’umuryango wabo gusa, ariko ukaba waragize uruhare runini mu gusangiza abandi inkuru y’urukundo rwabo.
Umuryango wa Dr. Iyabo Webzell: Dr. Iyabo Webzell n’umugabo we bafite abana bane: abakobwa babiri n’abahungu babiri b’umugabo we. Batuye i Atlanta, Georgia, aho Dr. Iyabo akora nk’umuganga w’abana akaba n’umuyobozi w’ikigo cy’ubuvuzi cya Milestone Pediatrics.